Talking to strangers : what we should know about the people we don't know /
What we should know about the people we do not know What we should know about the people we don't know
Malcolm Gladwell.
- First edition.
- xii, 386 pages : illustrations, maps ; 22 cm
Includes bibliographical references (pages 349-379) and index.
"Step out of the car!" -- Spies and diplomats : two puzzles. Fidel Castro's revenge ; Getting to know der Führer -- Default to truth. The queen of Cuba ; The holy fool ; Case study : The boy in the shower -- Transparency. The Friends fallacy ; A (short) explanation of the Amanda Knox case ; Case study : The fraternity party -- Lessons. KSM : what happens when the stranger is a terrorist? -- Coupling. Sylvia Plath ; Case study : The Kansas City experiments ; Sandra Bland. Introduction : Part I. Part II. Part III. Part IV. Part V.
In this treatise spurred by the 2015 death of African American academic Sandra Bland in jail after a traffic stop, the author aims to figure out the strategies people use to assess strangers - to "analyze, critique them, figure out where they came from, figure out how to fix them," in other words: to understand how to balance trust and safety. The author uses a variety of examples from history and from headlines to illustrate that people size up the motivations, emotions, and trustworthiness of those they don't know both wrongly and with misplaced confidence