TY - BOOK AU - Kane,Emily W. TI - The gender trap: parents and the pitfalls of raising boys and girls SN - 9780814748824 (cl : alk. paper) AV - HQ755.8 .K346 2012 U1 - 306.874 23 PY - 2012/// CY - New York, NY PB - New York University KW - Parenthood KW - Child rearing KW - Sex differences KW - Boys KW - Psychology KW - Girls N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; Acknowledgments -- Introduction: "glamour babies" and "little toughies" -- Wanting a girl, wanting a boy : conceptual building blocks -- It's in their nature : naturalizers -- I think a lot of it is us, parents, and society : cultivators -- We try not to encourage it, but I know it gets in there : refiners -- You applaud all the other stuff : innovators -- Surviving in a gendered culture : resisters -- Conclusion: a better world : dismantling the gender trap -- Appendix: research methods -- Notes -- References -- Index ER -