TY - BOOK AU - Hollander,Paul TI - Extravagant expectations: new ways to find romantic love in America SN - 9781566637770 (cloth : alk. paper) AV - HQ801 .H7155 2011 U1 - 306.73/4/0973 22 PY - 2011/// CY - Chicago, [Ill.] PB - Ivan R. Dee KW - Man-woman relationships KW - United States KW - Mate selection KW - Love KW - Personals N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 213-229) and index; Introduction : from arranged marriage to social isolation -- Modernity, romantic love, and the rise of expectations -- Popular romanticism in America -- Expert advice on dating and mating -- Self-presentation and wish lists in printed personals -- Looking for love on the Internet : Massachusetts -- Looking for love on the Internet : Nebraska and Alabama -- Looking for love on the Internet : California -- Conclusion : the entitlement to happiness ER -